Sometimes people go through rough patches, and sometimes those rough patches make it seem like there is something that is wrong, in general, with them. We can confidently tell you, that there is not. Each person is different, and while leading a healthy life is important both mentally and physically, one of the most important things about dating (both on the phone and off) is finding a great person that is compatible with you.

There are billions of people on the planet, and billions is a very high number. Often times, it takes meeting a lot of people to find a great match for you. Phone dating hotlines are a great place to meet a larger number of people in a shorter period of time, which can help speed the process up.

People also love that they are not judged by their looks, but by how their personalities mesh together, early in the phone dating process. Many people that use phone dating services go into it with an open mind and are more nonjudgmental than some of the people on other dating services. Even if the person you are talking with will not be a good fit in terms of dating, they may be able to fill another role in your life and become a great friend. This is one of the reasons that you want to treat every conversation with care and be yourself. Every person you meet has the potential to have a positive impact on your life.

If you have had bad dating experiences, or have dealt with assholes, remember that this does not reflect everybody in the world. You are better than you think. You are you, and you are fantastic just how you are.

This isn’t to say that people shouldn’t learn and don’t change over time. What it does mean, is that who you are in your life right now will be appreciated by a plethora of other people that are also looking to date. Having the confidence to know that it is less about fitting into a bubble or a mold and more about putting together a puzzle of two (or more) pieces. That’s dating on a phone chat trial, folks.