Male cross dressers often seek to experience female domination. But a partner’s role is incredibly important in this, and they must be free to opt-out of the scenario whenever they like.
It’s also crucial that they aren’t called sissies or transvestites. This kind of language perpetuates the transphobic ideas that are out there and can make it difficult for these men to explore their kinks safely.
1. It’s a fetish
There are a lot of people who crossdress for sexual pleasure. Some do it on a daily basis, and it’s more than just putting on makeup or a dress and walking out the door.
This fetish is a part of many people’s lives, and it’s not always a topic that is discussed openly. For some, it’s about breaking taboos. It’s about masturbation, and it can be very fulfilling. For others, it’s about the feeling of being in women’s clothing and the power that comes with it.
It’s also important to note that this is not the same as drag, and it’s not necessarily a form of performance art. It’s a very personal thing, and it’s about exploring one’s own fantasies. It’s not about becoming the fetish or eventually living as the opposite gender, although some people may eventually do that. It’s about exploring one’s own sexuality and finding what makes you happy. It’s a very fulfilling thing to do, and it can be extremely kinky.
2. It’s a fantasy
For many people, crossdressing is a fantasy. They love the feeling of women’s clothing and enjoy pushing the boundaries of societal acceptance. They also like the thrill of not knowing if they’re going to be caught by someone.
These men often keep their crossdressing a secret from their partners, friends and family members. They’ll only talk about it to those who they know will understand and be supportive. This can lead to a lot of tension in the relationship.
Some crossdressers even find it kinky to wear lingerie and women’s panties in public. This is known as sissification, and it can be a great source of pleasure for some men. It’s often tied in with a fetish for female domination and humiliation. For example, they might fantasize about being forced to dress up as a woman and be served by other men. This kink is very common among heterosexual men. However, it’s important to note that it does not make them gay or bisexual.
3. It’s a lifestyle
For some people, crossdressing is much more than a fetish. It’s a lifestyle, and it can include everything from wearing makeup and dresses to playing with their hair and having feminine-style sex. It’s a way of exploring their sexuality without being labelled as gay.
Some crossdressers even try to project a complete impression of another gender, right down to their mannerisms and speech patterns. This is known as passing, and it can be very challenging.
Other crossdressers may want their intimate partners to be involved in their lifestyle, which can be complicated. It’s important to understand where their interest in the kink is coming from. For example, it might be that they enjoy female domination or they find humiliation hot. They might also like to fantasize about being pimped by men. To help them deal with these issues, they might want to read books such as The Tranny Guide or At Her Feet. Moreover, they might seek out online communities for crossdressers to talk about their experiences and to get support.
4. It’s a kink
A kink is any non-traditional sexual activity that a person enjoys in practice or fantasy. This can include bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, leather and rubber fetishism, animal role-play, crossdressing or a wide range of other kinky activities.
A common kink for crossdressers is sissification or trying to ‘pass’ as female in public. This can be a very challenging and rewarding experience with enormous highs. For some sissies this is a life long kink.
Some people who are interested in crossdressing also enjoy kinky sex with their partner. Some couples explore this by having sex in women’s clothes or by incorporating a dominant role play element, such as pegging (a woman performing anal sex on a man with a strap-on dildo). Some crossdressers find that their sexual activity with their partner is more satisfying if they are dressed up, which is why they may want to keep their gender expression a secret from other people.